2015. június 19., péntek

In English- 1,5 year

One and a half years and ............
I've been thinking, I was pained.
But seriously.......... STOP what happend in thet time.............
 4. ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP
I believe, if you have the perfect partner to need to keep it, but it is not always truth.
We are not live in the 50 ''s, a relationship has been difficult it is not a perfect world.
Find it, seduce, be yourself ( in a this time everybody changed, try to be perfect but it should not be),and keep it, if something this is hard.
We all saw romantic movies .... Pretty Woman, Breakfast at Tiffany's etc, but what they tell as ...... the writers write a script for excellent relationship, the directors dreamd it, the designers make the perfect milieu, actors play what every girl looking for ........ romance .......... thats all sound be nice but, just girls looking for this?
  In the 21st, it matter? boy or girl? no it is not, it desire for romance everyone.
Our parents have grown up in a different world with out email, blogs, chat, facebook. tweeter or the Internet is not part of they life, but knew something what we did not (drums) .......... ROMANCe
But it's a different world, in the most successful relationships we knew for movies and series, WHY? Because we are expect that all changed after we tell each other "I LOVE YOU" and there's no problem, because everyone who says that's think seriously OR not ....
You say it to your parents, your BFF who know all your secrets (sometimes share with comb), but when you say it the person whom plans in you future. YOU sincerely do this by your hard or repeat this when he say it???????
What if you not feel it????? you do not like him, or he does not like you, you should know AAAAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNDDDDDD the romantic movies came the GREAT kiss AFTER "I love you" part and they live happily ever after, but what is the reality?
We know everyone who told it, boy or a girl, everyone who teld once hoped our lover feel the same, and when we looked in his eyes we seen ourselves, but he seen as or looks away over our shoulders ???
I told it and I meant it, I knew always when looked in his eyes, but did not expect to told it HOPE NOBODY EXPECTED IT
IT IS bullshit
BUT I told it, it was easy........ NO it is not, i need it some times befor i told it but i feel, i knew, but I trusted him enough to plan a future together ....NO he need to proved it think seriously,  in the romantic movie easier to plan and live the future than to say this
STILL I said it, I felt it and think it, I was found THE ONE, he was bad habits too (quite a lot), but it was something that can not be put into words, only to feel, literally feel the smell of the love ..... AND HAPPY END ............. maybe in the movies
The world does not allow you to be happy, came the time to meet the family, the friends and planning, common apartment? and etc ..........
What kill a relationship? If after told the words you are unhappy, when the quarrels
"GOOD" exclamation ended when already in doubt that he is serious about ??
Everyone was already like that? (Please write to me if you want to share as)
What have I done ????? Seriously, I said the words, he did something to saved our relationship? He did nothing. We broke up ???????? no because not enough of a break to "good", all the cold it, it was more like an old marriage ....... why I did not quit ?????? I believed we can fix it, once we love each other, why would depend on all ??? It sounds naive..
Many couples want to fix it because maybe it / trying to establish a connection.
Good luck for them
And the rest of us ???????? If you feel you need to run,  run, fast and far!
One and a half years under what I learned?
Love is not easy, the words have own powers, what is broken or it strengthens your heart, and if you say it does not mean you nedd to be perfect. MUST BE trite to but really become always and at all times be yourself, your friends can not help you because they see you're happy, but you really are?
I was not but I stayed next to him, but then ................
5 WHAT MEANS LOVE

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